Actually, I had not given it much thought, but I have, for most of my adult life, insisted that when I invite friends and they bring children with, the children must only eat what they want and only as much of it as they want. I usually have to explain to the parents that I am paying for the meals so as to provide pleasure...otherwise I'd have made some lentils and onion and fed them at home. For it to be a pleasure for the kids, it means they must be allowed to follow my rules.

I had not realised I was trying to oppose the 95%

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