Putting the needs of the individual first is really only possible (a) if there are safety nets for food-imcome-shelter or if you are callous, unfeeling or uncaring if there aren't. Ultimately my own daughter will judge me too if I let her father and brother starve. So it's never quite that simple.

The different cultural values sure do stretch me personally though!! On a good day I mutter a lot.... 😆 Great advice to make sure I keep my own cup very full. 😍