We convince ourselves that our lives will be better after we get married. After we have children. We are frustrated that the children are not big enough, and that we will be happier when they grow up.
Then we get frustrated because they get older and harder with them. We are confident that we will be happier once they have passed this stage. We tell ourselves that our lives will be better and will be perfect when our partner is more successful.
When we have a better car or a bigger house, when we can go on vacation, when we're retired. The truth is that there is no better time to be happy "from now on." If not now then when?
Life is always full of challenges and obstacles. It is best to accept it and decide to be happy anyway. Someone once said, "For a long time it seemed to me that" real life "was supposed to start soon, but there was always one obstacle, a problem I had to deal with, an unresolved fax, a debt that had to be paid. That these obstacles are my life. " This perspective helped me to understand that there is no way to happiness: happiness is the way to it!
It will be good if you keep every good moment that you have alone or with someone special enough worth spending your time with him because you will remember ... Time is not waiting for anyone. So, stop waiting until the end of school, until you lose weight, until you get married, until your children leave home. Until she gets divorced, by Friday night or Sunday morning, until summer, until autumn, until winter or spring, or until she dies to decide there is no better time to be happy. Happiness is a path not a destiny.
Work like you do not need money
Love as if they never hurt you
Dance like nobody sees you
Happiness is the journey itself and not the destination!
