Do not allow your pain to make you bitter. Turn it into the sweet nectar that your soul contains gives as a sign of strength and resilience after it is shattered. ~ Najwa Zebian
Pain, Pain go Away.
Oftentimes, we encounter situations where we get emotionally attacked and in any circumstances one thing is for sure, "WHEN YOU FEEL THE PAIN THEN YOU CARED A LOT LEAVING NOTHING FOR YOURSELF". The pain caused by the people who you never believe can do it towards you is impactful. You're keep on asking yourself why but no answer will ever suffice and before you knew it, your heart is wounded. DEEPLY WOUNDED.
Bitterness or Happiness?
Yeah we got it. Being in pain is never easy. Emotionally hurt is the hardest feeling you will ever feel. But how you handle it will make a big difference in your life.
Be Bitter
You can watch yourself being destroyed with your bitterness. Eliminate all the soft side of you and turn yourself into a cursing monster. Hate that person who once made you feel happiness. Desert yourself with new opportunities. Cry daily and loose all your confidence. Be aggressively insecure and find your own demons with no cure. The massive anger that can turn you into murderer. Take vengeance even though it hurts your soul. You can choose this path but I assure you, you're not hurting the person who caused you this but yourself. Be a pathetic person begging for affection.Be Happy
In every sadness, happiness will always find its way to you. It comes in any form if only your heart is willing. Instead of being bitter and loose yourself, turn your pain as your motivation to carry on with life. Stop the hate and just move on. I promise you it will not be easy but so long as you are willing and forgiving, healing will approach you. When your heart is soft, good things will come chasing after you. Always remember that God will never give you an obstacle which you cannot make through. Be like a flower, where bees sting but bloomed so beautifully. Make your pain your strength. One day, you'll look back on this moment and you will be amazed of how strong you have become. Spend every seconds making yourself happy and get off that negativity. Life is good. God is merciful. And I believe the wounds in your heart WILL HEAL. IT WILL HEAL. YOU WILL HEAL.
Reflection
Being in pain doesn't mean you're unworthy of love and affection. It's okay to cry hard as much as you want as it only shows how genuine your heart is. It's okay not to lean on people to help you ease the pain. Being alone during hard times makes you even stronger. Thank those who hurt you as without them you will not be who you are today. The Strong, Happy, Lovable YOU!
But always remember that happiness will only follow when you learn to forgive the people who hurt you. When you finally forgive yourself for embracing the pain and allow it to move forward. Bethink that you cannot forgive others when you have not forgiven yourself. You cannot heal others when you cannot heal your own first. Love your self and stop deserting it from people.
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