In our younger age, we make various choice's without the future in mind. Sometimes those choices bite us in our mid-life. These are some of the things one might regret when they're older.
Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young. It is better you have broken relationship now than having a broken marriage. The rate of divorce is increasing in our generation because people marry for wrong reasons yet God standards for marriage has never change. Divorce is not part of God package for marriage, when you make the mistake try to make it works."It鈥檚 easier for heaven and earth to pass away than for the smallest stroke of a pen in the Law to drop out. Any man who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and a man who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery."Luke 16:17-18
When you are younger many doors will open, you will get many chances. Many young people let these opportunities go because of fear, laziness, or pride; yet well younger and with more energy is the best time to start a venture and a name for yourself. Some think the opportunities are too big for them. Take advantage of them or one day when you're older you will want to go back and grab those missed chances. There's an adding that says "opportunity comes but once". The opportunity you refuse to make use of in your youthful age, you will look for it in your old age but it will be far from you. Make positive use of every opportunity now that you still have vigor to do so. In addition, whatever you find doing, do it with the whole of your heart.
Building Ideal relationship is very essential.There's need to pay attention to relationship in our contemporary time, a friendship that is not based on personal gain rather is should be intentional. As the bible clearly stated " One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother" so friendship is is paramount in our lives, we must pay careful attention to friendship not just anyhow friendship but an ideal one.
when we are younger, we care little for relationships, what most think about is getting money and moving up the ladder of success at all cost. Many use and trample on people to progress, they take relationships for granted, messing up bonds, sleeping with people for personal gain. But these bad actions will catch up with you ahead. When you will realize how empty life is without love and friends. When you will have success but no one around you or no one to trust you.
Happy Easter to you all馃槝馃槝馃槉馃槉
