{Close friends are|Good friends are} the family we get to choose. {Yet|Nevertheless|Although} don't expect too much from them, cautions MALLIKA BHATIA
Recall the {most severe|most detrimental} time of your daily life. Now try to remember that {one individual|a single person} who stood by you in this hour of {problems|turmoil|catastrophe}. It could either {be considered a|become a|certainly be a} parent, sibling or good friend. Chances are it was the latter. The friend was to assist you, comforting reassuring and supportive. That's what friends are about: providing {regular|frequent} support, our comforting companion and our worst {essenti|vit|pro}. These are the family we choose!
Friends are people we {want to|wish to} {spend more time with|go out with}. They give us company while we are {lonesome|unhappy|depressed}, support us unconditionally and accept us despite our shortcomings. They make {festivities|activities|get-togethers} fun, and they help us be ourselves.
{Not really|Certainly not} just that, friends also help us grow at a spiritual level. {Every|Every single} soul is {on the trip|on the quest|on the voyage|over a trip|over a quest|over a voyage}. Friends are guides who come into our lives, play their roles and {proceed|go forward}. Don't we all have friends who we were very {near} at one point, good results. whom we are no longer touching now? {They will|That they} drifted {far from|from|faraway from} our life when their job as guide was over. What friends do {for all of us are not able to|for all of us are unable to|for all of us simply cannot|for people are not able to|for people are unable to|for people simply cannot} be described in words. It is important for us to have friends but many of all of us find it difficult to start a friendship.
{Avoid|May|No longer} Expect Too Much
{In the event that|In the event|If perhaps} we keep a few things in mind, it shouldn't be difficult to make friends. {The very first is|The foremost is|Is} {to start out|to get started on} a relationship with the obligation expectations. Don't expect too much. If you start with high {expectations|desires}, the relationship is likely to flounder. For anyone to fulfil your {anticipations|objectives|targets}, they need to understand what is expected of them. This understanding {requires|will take|can take} time. Besides, expectations are two-sided, so having low expectations ensures the same from others. One of the drawbacks of starting a friendship with high expectations is the {truth|reality|simple fact} at every step, you start judging the person and his actions. {There is certainly|There exists|There may be} {a regular|a frequent} dialogue going on {in your head|in your thoughts} where you are trying to judge if the person is {fitted|installing|appropriate} {into the|with your} definition of a friend.
Stop Being Judgemental
If you are too judgemental, {you may|you could} focus only on the negatives and miss out on {a few of|a number of|several of} the finer qualities {your pals|your buddies|friends and family} might possess. People {avoid|may|no longer} necessarily have to fit {into the|with your} image of a good person. There are many other ways in which people can be good. Also, if every person in your life matches your definition of good, probably all the people in your daily life will be {as well|likewise|equally}. {In case you are|Should you be|For anyone who is} eclectic in your views, life will {showering|shower room|bathe} {upon you|you|for you} an abundance of friends.
Another important {facet of|element of|part of} friendship is understanding that {most of us|many of us} grow and change. Since we continue to grow, we {always|carry on and|still} {develop|progress|advance}. Hence, it is important that an individual judge people by their {previous|earlier} actions. Always give them another chance. See them with neutrality. That way you can start a relationship from an absolutely new perspective, like {piece of art|art work|portrait} on a clean {painting|fabric|special canvas}. What you paint {can now be|can then be} up to you.
{An additional|One more|One other} golden rule is to have no pre-conceived {idea|concept} about either {the individual|anyone|anybody} or the relationship. What the relationship should involve should be determined by the {activities|experience} {both|the 2|both the} people {talk about|show}, and not with a fixed definition that is prevalent. The relationship could be an {powerful|strong} one, or it could be {simply an everyday} friendship where both individuals have the same idea of fun. {In the event that|In the event|If perhaps} you don't start with a fixed notion, the freedom in the {romantic relationship|marriage|romance} {can help you|assists you to|makes it possible to} grow and explore.
Communication Is Important
In any relationship, and {especially|specifically} in friendship, it is important to communicate {plainly|evidently} what {you feel|you sense}. Honest communication {causes|brings about} the right {anticipations|objectives|targets}. Always speak frankly about the way you feel. This ensures that your friend understands you for who you are and not the that {the girl|the lady|your woman} might have created in her mind. {Additionally, it|In addition, it} ensures that there is complete acceptance and trust in the relationship.
{The greater|A lot more} {approval|popularity|acknowledgement} there is, the easier you should trust. {Ultimately|At some point|Sooner or later} trust is the most basic for any strong {romantic relationship|marriage|romance}. But to develop trust {you require|you will need|you may need} to communicate {plainly|evidently} {and become|and stay} non-judgemental. Make sure you do your best to nurture the {companionship|a friendly relationship|camaraderie}.
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