Life is complex. The complexity increases with time, the cycle of destiny seems to rotate like a wheel between humans, if we never try, strive to maintain or increase the value of our own life, then automatically we will be eliminated from the life cycle that we expect.
Have you ever heard of the term natural selection? Natural selection is usually for animals and plants, but we can try to study analogies to our lives as humans.
The concept is similar, it's just that the context is more on self adaptation, as an organism with its internal psychological dynamics to the external psychological dynamics of billions of people, perhaps. Who can be calm, not sink into deep distress, who will survive, grow and develop.
It feels quite saturating, huh? Until we realize it, boredom stems from a clogged way of our thoughts, or maybe our feelings become narrower and make us seem stuck.
Ordinary people may immediately think that we are applying negative suggestions to ourselves, and that is considered sel defeating, as low as we are seen from one side only and they seem to know everything.
It felt like all thoughts and feelings were exploding. It was as if I was a time bomb running very slowly, regardless of whether this post was true or false.
Initially, I was looking for friends who could actually make me feel like I existed, or a conscious sel existence. To the extent that I need and make friends who are sincere, willing to make friends and accept me consistently, without fake expressions, or without inconsistencies between lips, eyes, and intonation of speech.
Maybe you are already familiar with the expression that the listener type is someone who is willing to become a "trash can" for other people.
I myself, believe that there is still a better expression than "trash can". But maybe, I can understand from the perspective of "those" who call these "listeners" a "trash can."
I don't know, right or wrong, right or not, for this is purely the result of fairly superficial self observation and contemplation on self expression.
Speaking of expressions, we probably already know that currently a lot of creative works, ranging from music, poetry, books, novels, and even our work projects are the result of our expressions.
By definition, an expression is an expression of an idea, feeling, or something that wants to be expressed. Many forms. Because expressions tend to lead to what we think, feel, and feel like conveying to others.
And one thing you can find, if you are sensitive, and of course, if you are strong, you will find another side that shows his need, another kind of message from that expressive human being.
For example, someone who is expressive in music may want to ease his negative burden by composing straightforward and uplifting lyrics for himself, fortunately also benefiting others.
Or a writer who creates characters and figures inspired by his life experiences, combines his hopes for the character, then befriends the main character according to his expectations. It could be that he has the hope of wanting to make friends like the companion character he created. Here is an example.
When we feel that we are not creators, or have the talent to work like everyone else, of course we can still speak up, talk about doubts, sadness, joy, and so on, in the form of casual chat. We often call it "vent."
Yes, this is a form of self expression. But because adventuring tends to follow the flow of feelings, random thoughts, and without editing here and there, sometimes makes a person feel uncomfortable, has spent valuable time with the thoughts and feelings of others.
Really, from here on the word "trash can" was given to loyal listeners? Who always gives the time and place to listen to every detail of our spoken expression? Feeling ourselves as "storytellers" with no right to expression? To express any emotions? Is this the beginning of feelings of inferiority, and feelings of worthlessness?
Let's just be brief, because maybe you can come up with what your version of the expression means.
From me the conclusion is like this:
Expression is our reflex response to every moment of life. Expressions can be an intermediary or the result of our mental abilities which include the process of thinking and feeling, until we create works, or concrete responses such as speech and ideas that are tucked between our social process sentences. Are you aware?
Yes, this is also a personal note for me, to better appreciate the need for expressions to relieve negative tensions, so that negativity becomes meaning, and the positive side remains a light for everyone.
Expressing oneself is free, but the rules are similar to our country's constitution, free and responsible.
We can't focus too much and forever focus on self expression, be it negative or positive. Even though having negative and positive feelings is the human condition, we need to look around, do the expressions we want to do well also have a good effect? Enough.
For those of you who are passionate about expressing yourself ;)
