I think if you are a person who gives of yourselves and work hard, you are automatically someone who is very hard on yourself - I know because I am like that. I think we must sometimes stand still and realize that we give way more value than we think. The sad thing about life is it does come down to money because we cannot survive without it and the fact that people who really add no value sometimes or most of the time gets so much more than you. But I guess we must not look at what others have, but be thankful for what we have bla bla bla