Mediation is a very important matter and there are many things to consider when doing mediation. So I would say that not everyone can mediate and mediation requires the presence of wisdom. Mediation is never possible without the presence of intelligence because it may suddenly be necessary to mediate. The most important thing in mediation is impartiality and without impartiality, mediation is never possible. Hence the mediator must be impartial. Apart from these, a mediator needs many qualities and if he does not have those qualities he can never be called a mediator.
I would like to thank HIVE LEARNERS COMMUNITY for organizing such a wonderful contest and I am writing today's post for participating in the HIVE LEARNERS COMMUNITY Contest. Today's topic is MIDDLE MAN. I discuss this matter below:
Long ago I became a mediator and succeeded in stopping the quarrel. This story I am going to share with you and this story was from my college life. One day I was sitting near the college ground and some boys were playing cricket in the field. Suddenly I saw that quarrel broke out between them and I went to them to find out the reason for the quarrel. The captains of the two teams came forward and told me the reason for their quarrel. The cause of quarrel between them was very small and they were having a big quarrel for small cause.
There was a quarrel between them for a 6. One of their captains was telling me that we hit a six off the last ball and the captain of another team was telling me that it wasn't a six. On this issue, a great quarrel started between them and then I reconciled them. I try to stop their quarrel by being a mediator. I tell them that considering both sides I declare the game draw and my decision is accepted by the captains of both the teams.
Then I ask them to continue playing one more over and I tell them that whoever wins this over is the winner of today's game. Then the game is restarted and one team wins. Now there was no quarrel between them and my decision was liked by all. This is how I was able to stop their quarrel and became a successful mediator between them too. This is my memory and I will never forget it. Apart from this incident there are many other incidents where I became a mediator. Finally I understand very well that to be a mediator a person must have certain qualities and must be impartial.
