Today I will talk about our religious and social customs.This is our Bengali culture.This culture has been passed down through the ages, and I myself have witnessed these customs and practices since childhood.In our religion, marriage is an obligatory act and it is a social bond.
Marriage is a sacred bond and it is certainly recognized by the great creator.Our religion says that to preserve one's character, one should marry only when one is an adult.To escape the deception and temptation of Satan, one must get married because this is an obligatory act.But this marriage is not done hastily.This etiquette has some rules.
There are religious customs and social norms that must be followed before marriage.Of course, everyone supports these customs.Marriage is a social bond and a bond for life. Marriage is important for the growth of the family and for the happiness of the family.Marriage is important for creating a family.Marriage is important to protect oneself from temptation.It is recognized by the Creator.
Since it is a lifelong bond, both the boy and the girl have their own preferences before marriage.So before marriage, the first thing a boy does is go to the girl's house to see her, and that's our social system.When the groom and bride go to see the bride, several meals are prepared for them, but the first is sharbat.After the sharbat, various fruit items.Boy will look at the girl first and his choice will be the last choice.
These social customs are very joyful and exciting.First, the boy will visit the girl at her house and then if he likes the girl, he will invite her family.But of course, there is also the matter of the girl's preference.If the girl does not like the boy, she will not accept the invitation.And if both parties like it, then the girl's family will be invited.
Then one day the girl's family will come to the boy's house to visit the house.If everything goes well, the wedding date will be fixed.And a grand wedding ceremony is held where all the relatives and neighbors are present.In this way, these legitimate religious practices and social bonds are intertwined.A new domestic life will begin through the choice of both parties and it will begin with prayer.Everything is tidy.
Recently we went to see a girl for my brother because my brother is of marriageable age.We went to the girl's house as per the social norms and saw the girl but unfortunately my brother did not like the girl.We went to that girl's house and had a light breakfast, which included sherbet and fruit.But it's not surprising, as I said before, preference comes first.If a boy likes a girl, this relationship will happen.
Yes friends, these are the social customs and religious customs of our country.Can you tell me how the beginning of marriage in your country is? I end here with the wishes of good health to everyone.
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