Hi @arlin19

My heart goes out to you, I think every mother feels inadequate at times and like we need to be doing more or doing things differently. I know it all too well.

A friend of mine told me a while back that you need to look at what you are doing for her. Even if you can't be at her side all the time, she knows you are mama and she wouldn't want to have anyone else hold that name.

If you truly want to make that decision, then that is your choice, even though you say you know you can't change the things as they currently stand, we always have the choice to change things or plan and build towards them as goals.

Parenting is difficult at the best of times, don't be too hard on yourself. If everything else in your personal life is going well, you've got more right than most people. You got this 🌷