Don't be too lazy. Don't get too desperate. The Right Knowledge reduces pain-and-suffering and increases happiness. If we fall short of having acquired the Right Knowledge, the faults is ours’, isn’t it? You can't spell impossible without spelling possible. Things you Do to live a Happy life, shouldn't ruin others. You can't feel the essence of Happiness unless you overcome your Sadness. I'm not sure anyone knows what they're looking for until they find it.
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