@amjadsharifA promise is a word that shows commitment between people. It develops a relationship of trust. If we break a promise, an atmosphere of uncertainty can be created. Then no one will believe us because we did not fulfill our promise. This not only increases the chances of ending friendships and relationships, but also distances us from each other.
Today I am going to write a history whose topic is fascinating and attention-grabbing because in the society we live in, we need to be aware of this. I will talk about two topics here. One is what I broke with someone and the other is what someone broke a promise they made to me.
Last year, in June and July, we were supposed to go on a tour of the Northern Areas of Pakistan, but due to personal reasons, I suddenly had to postpone this program. We five friends were going to go in a car and I had promised them that we would definitely go. Suddenly, when I told them that we were not going and also told them the reason, they felt very sad and Due to my cancellation of this program, he cried with me for a long time but I convinced him with my efforts and said that we will definitely go on tour next year and I was hoping that we will definitely do the 2025 tour
This year, some other friends and relatives joined us for the tour and forced us to go on the tour with us, so we made a plan which we were delaying because there were some reasons in front of us, like first of all, there was an important meeting of a friend in which he had to be included, then when we fixed the next program every time, there was a bridge repair that we had to pass through, so we postponed our date again by a week and then one of our friends told us that he is not available yet, so either the program should be postponed or canceled, so this was a promise with a promise and delaying our plan, only one person was busy in it, so he kept his promise again and again I was leaving which made us very sad and we cancelled the tour completely
I would like to share with you another incident of broken promises with me. I borrowed some money from a man. He promised to return the money to me in three installments and also told me his dates, on which dates I will return your money to you. On the first date, he paid first, but later, about a month after the dates he had mentioned, he paid some money, and when the time came for the third date, he clearly said that he did not have the money. I gave him some more time, and even then, he did not return the money to m,e, which made me very sad. Then there was financial trouble, and with it, financial loss also started happening, and the people I had taken loans from started asking me to return them, which was a source of great trouble for me. It has been four months now, but I am getting the money little by little, but I have not received it in full. I am yet to receive it. So I have been suffering a lot from the past few days because what was promised to me could not be fulfilled and this caused me mental and emotional distress.
Most of the things we do either break due to some reasons or we break ourselves of our own free will. So if, for some reason, a person feels a little short and is forced to fulfill this promise that is not within his power, then the matter is understandable. And the person with whom the promise was made also understands that he had to fulfill the promise he had made to me, but he was under some compulsion due to which he could not fulfill his promise. But if you deliberately break your promise, then it actually causes pain and can end your friendship or relationship. Therefore, we should pay attention to this thing that we try to fulfill the promise we have made, whether it is in the form of compulsion or intentionally.
