In my Missionette organization, an all-girls gathering, I always tell my girls that many girls who blindly fall into the hands of deceitful boys do so because they don't know that they are beautiful.
Though you have to dress the way you want to be addressed, skincare routines, earrings, and elegance don't actually define true beauty.
Being beautiful starts from within. It is about how you treat yourself, how you treat others, and how you actually feel about yourself. In return, this builds your confidence. People often see you through your own eyes—the way you see yourself.
So, if you see a beautiful person when you stand in front of the mirror, people will see you in the same way.
Being beautiful is also reflected in how you treat others. A lady with beautiful, polished manners can be considered much more beautiful than a lady with a perfectly symmetrical face and a trusted skincare routine simply because of how she treats others and herself.
Trying to look your best is just the sprinkles on the cake. The main thing is how you treat yourself and the people around you. If you understand this, then you'll understand the phrase, "Everyone is beautiful."
In summary
You should know that you are beautiful before anyone else tells you that you are.
I don't have anything special that I use. I just use palm kernel oil and shea butter because I get reactions whenever I use other lotions or creams.
For my hair, I use clove and onion, and I oil it with coconut oil and avocado oil. These help to moisturize my hair and, for me, reduce dandruff.
Feel free to try them.
