I owe my Hive friends an apology. I've hardly done anything on Hive this week, either curation or replying to comments. Bad of me, I know.
But I really hit the wall this week.
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I've been posting on Hive every day so far this year, really upping my game in terms of consistency. Then last Thursday I blew it. I should have staked BBHO and written a BPUD post. Instead, I finished work, had supper, and then thought I'd chill out while the food went down by sitting on the sofa and watching television for a few minutes before posting.
Instead, I fell asleep on the sofa and when I woke up, it was the next day. Well, 3am the next day. It still counts !
It made me take stock and do some thinking. I've had quiet a few things stressing me out and taking up space in my head for the last little while. Mostly non-Hive things; a lot of pressure adapting my business to the latest changes in Google's search algorithms, time that needed to be spent working on the bike, getting kit ready for the re-enactment season that starts soon, and a few family issues.
What I realised is that subconsciously, Hive had become another source of psychological pressure. Don't misunderstand me; I'm still a big believer in Hive, and I'm not going anywhere.
But the thought in the back of my mind that I needed to post every day, to work through all the notifications curating and responding, it all started to feel like an obligation.
I love writing posts, and supporting the friends I've made here. But blowing the daily posting streak may actually have done me good.
It means I can post when I want to and not worry about getting a Hivebuzz Yearly Author badge. I don't have to worry that I'm writing rubbish just to tick a daily box, although I suspect that's part of what was putting the pressure on - I've always been determined to create reasonably good posts, even if they are in niche communities that don't generate huge rewards. Even when I was aiming for a long posting streak, that didn't change.
So now, I can come back after a couple of days off and I've found that without the hidden pressure, I've got more ideas for posts and ideas that I can allow to sit in my head for a bit rather than feeling like I needed to post them before they were really fully cooked.
If I get writers block for a day or two, I don't have to worry about it, and without that worry I'm less likely to get writer's block in the first place.
Hitting the wall was tough. But I reckon it did me good in the long run.
