How to make my son brave
Courage
The courage is defined as boldness and steadfastness when facing the conditions that may come to the person, as well as the ability to deal with matters with clarity and wisdom, with the fear of the opponent, and show the firmness and intensity in dealing with him, which gives the person confidence in himself, and helps him to overcome the difficulties and prevent the other party It is important to note that it is possible to develop this status in the child since childhood, so mothers are looking for ways to make her son brave, and in this article we will mention ways to instill courage in the hearts of children.
How to make my son brave
Positive reinforcement
To enhance the child's self-confidence, and to motivate him or her as courage, courage, strength, and direction, or to teach him how to make a good impression of himself and to be positive in front of others.
Praise the child, praise him, talk about him positive words in front of others, and non-deaf, and the qualities of cowardly, or lazy, or weak, because it affects his psychology, and makes him convince himself to hear from his parents, it must be noted that the person speaks with himself On a daily basis, if the child hears negative words constantly, when talking to himself will talk about this talk that will affect him, and his self-confidence.
Notice of tenderness, and occasional attachment.
Talk to him about imaginary things, and help him imagine a parent, so as not to be afraid of imagining him alone.
Education and break the barrier of ignorance of things
Teach him to do things he loves, to benefit him at the same time, to pay attention to his talent, and to find his strengths, which enables him to develop his skills, help him to think positively, and increase his confidence in his abilities.
Talk to him about things he is afraid of, and inform him of its usefulness, for example, if he is afraid of injections, we know that it contains a cure for human, and no need to fear them, and that without it may continue the disease for a longer time, which leads him to think the benefit of return, And forget her pain.
Teach your child to exercise that requires boldness, and punctuality to mix with people, such as sports, boxing, swimming, judo, etc., and not restricting the child to a particular frame.
Provide support and guidance to the son
Help him to face the things he is afraid of. For example, if he is afraid of darkness, we go into a dark room with him, talk to him, smile at him, and tell him that there is nothing frightening in the place, so every time he can face the darkness without fear.
Raising the child to be honest with himself, with his parents, or with others, not by intimidating him if he did something wrong, but by his advice, forgiveness, treating him as a friend, and not reprimanding him, so as not to lie in fear of punishment.
Directing the child to see what suits his age, helping him to pick good films, keeping him away from scenes of violence, beatings, and urging him to watch films that promote courage, daring and courage.
Informing the child that his parents are a role model for him, which signifies them to be a courageous, honest, and fearful example, making him imitate them to be like them.
Refrain from using intimidation
Do not intimidate him or threaten him with punishment if he does not ask a parent to ask him to do what he is asked to do, and warn him of the consequences of negligence. Many children make mistakes and do not know that what they are doing is wrong and not allowed.
Avoid preventing the child from moving just because it is just annoying; because it makes him subordinate, and thus becomes cowardly, and much fearful.
By Afnan Abou Moufrih
