Dont stress your self too much because no matter how bad the situation is..it will change.Dont promise when your happy,dont reply when you're angry,dont decide when you sad. Soft nature does not mean weakness,remember nothing is softer than water,but its force can break the strongest of rocks.if people say something about you,judge you as if they know you,dont feel bad just remember dog barks if they dont know the person.Knoledge will give you power,but character respects,never hate jealous people because they think you are better than them.What hurts you today makes you stronger tomorrow..