Yeah, it sounds more like you have the idea that @porcheberry has mentioned. Identifying with non-binary is more than just defying social norms, but more about not relating with any concept of male or female. It sounds like you had a wonderful set of parents to give you a great set of supports to develop into a bright shining star. I think it's highly important to treat everyone like a person, especially children! Our impact on children is HUGE, even during short exposures.