And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. -Romans 8:28
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Real solid growth with your relationship with God can occur in difficult circumstances in life when you bow before God and entrust yourself and your problems to him without demanding a solution. Suffering is never desirable but your sovereign loving God can make it profitable. Let God take charge of everything because He has his own solution to your problems.