We are human beings, so anger, pride, love, infatuation, emotions, and pride are all perfectly present in us. Therefore, these emotions and feelings of ours are activated according to each situation. If someone tries to force us to do something, then we unknowingly awaken our ego, that is, pride, which causes an insistence within us that we will not do that work. Many times it happens to us that we may be preparing to do a task, but if someone keeps forcing us to do that task too much and tries to force us too much, then our desire to do that task or the feeling of doing the task well is destroyed. As a result, we do not have the desire to do the task at all. By forcing, our inner insistence becomes so active that no matter how much we think that the task is very important or very necessary for us, we still have no interest in doing that task.
For example, if children are forbidden to do something, they do it first. Again, they insist on not doing the thing that is forced to be done and cry. But instead of forcing anyone to do something, if we constantly tell everyone to do something with love or well, then this stubbornness or arrogance will not arise and the desire to do that thing with love will be born. If we force someone to do something, that thing will always turn out to be bad. It is like when we ask someone to do something well with love, it turns out that person did that thing well with his own mind.
To get every person to do something, first he has to be made to understand the necessity of doing that thing and then he has to be made to understand how to do it more easily and better, then it will be seen that that person will do that thing very beautifully, easily and with love. In fact, anything can be conquered with love. But no problem can be solved by getting angry or quarreling or getting someone to do anything. So we should refrain from quarreling and always try to do our work with love and understanding. If we try to do something good for a person by force, it will also become a matter of annoyance for him. For example, if we force a small child to study or ask him to memorize, then that thing will become very annoying for him. And studying will become a matter of much fear in the child's mind.
But if we can use studying as a thing of love and teach or teach the child various subjects of study through fun or games, then the subject of study will become a much more joyful and interesting thing for the child. As a result, he will be able to study very well and will love studying very much. So never force anyone on any subject. Because if you force, any good thing can turn into a bad thing. Again, as a result of force, the beloved person can gradually move away and an annoying relationship can be created. So we will constantly try to encourage him to do any thing or any work. If you encourage people to work, any task will be done well. You should always refrain from forcing them, then there will be no bitterness in the relationship due to forcing them, and if you can do the task from your own heart, it will be possible to do even the most difficult tasks beautifully.omeone else does for us from their own heart should be considered as much and enough for us. Only by changing our mentality and thinking can we live beautifully.
