Parents mean a sacred relationship with a lot of respect and love. We cannot imagine life without parents in this world. For every child, their parents hold a very high place. We feel very protected by our parents. Although our parents are the best for us, we are never the best for our parents. Just as the mentality of every parent is not the same, not all parents are the same. Although it is very easy to become a parent by giving birth to a child, it is actually very difficult to become a parent. That is why the elders say that being a parent is not easy. Although there is no comparison between parents for us, there is always a comparison between children for parents. Parents always compare their children. In fact, not all children are equal for parents, some are very good and some are very bad, some children are responsible and some children do not understand responsibility and are capricious. Since that old age, we have been hearing that children are definitely needed so that they can take care of us in old age. But I think this is a bit selfish thinking.
Because we will bring a soul into this world who will not let us live in peace, will do as we say and force us to take care of them in their last years, then they will not have time to live their own life beautifully. I think every child needs to live their own life. If you raise your child well and educate them well, they will look after their parents in their last years and support them. So there is no point in wasting the child's entire life to look after and care for them in their last years. However, in order to educate your child well, you yourself must first become a well-educated and well-thinking person. Just as the thinking of every parent is not the same, not every parent is good. However, one thing can be observed in all parents, that is, every parent who has two or more children will have a favorite child. And there are also children who are neglected. If there is more than one child, parents can never give equal love and affection to each child.
In most cases, it is seen that the child who listens to the parents the most becomes the object of parental neglect. And the child who disobeys the parents the most and acts and works according to his own mind is the one who gets the most love from the parents. Because the child who disobeys and acts according to his own mind does good things according to his own mind in the future and earns more money, due to which the parents express more interest and love towards that child. On the other hand, the child who goes against his mind and obeys the parents does not have much interest or love towards the parent. No parent likes a child who earns less, even though the parents are at fault for earning less, the parents do not want to admit their own mistakes and blame the child in every case. For every parent, the child who is more financially capable is more dear to him. On the other hand, if a parent has a first child, a boy, and then a girl, no matter what the child is, the parents should love the next child more than the first child.
Whenever the elder child starts earning a little money, the parents start putting pressure on him to fulfill the needs of the younger siblings. For any parent, the elder child in the family is the one who carries the burden of the family. Also, among the daughters, the girl whose in-laws are in a good position gets a lot of love and care from her parents, and the girl who marries into a financially poor family gets a lot of neglect from her parents. Parents never give equal attention to every child. The child who can make the parents happy financially and from whom they get more benefits is the one who is more loved. Although all parents are not equal, there are many exceptional parents in this world who are ideal parents. But more than half of the parents in this world do a lot of injustice to their children. Nowadays, although the thinking has changed a bit and almost all parents think about their children that if they see in old age, they will see and if they don't, there is no complaint. But still, not every parent gives equal love to every child.
