I think she's in heat. Try getting another cat for her, a male cat so she won't get out of the house anymore. They really need companions so if they have one they won't bother going out anymore.
What she's feeling is normal..we have a cat too. He's male and he wants to go out specially when he is in heat. Luna is an alpha and is really very dominant when it comes to other male cats in our neighborhood probably because he is a Siamese breed. They have the tendency of being dominant and territorial so he often get in fights with other male stray cats but he ends up always winning, maybe because of his size, he is big.

So yah, just give Roro a boyfriend she will chill out at home... Meow!😻😻