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To understand this shift, it’s crucial to distinguish between loneliness and healthy instincts for social connection.

Loneliness, as defined by sociologists, is a subjective feeling that arises when there is a perceived gap between the social interaction one desires and what one actually experiences. For instance, lying on the couch and wishing to go out for a drink with a friend exemplifies loneliness — an unmet social need prompting a desire for connection.

Healthy social instincts have evolved to motivate us to seek out interactions that fulfill these needs, encouraging us to leave the comfort of our homes and connect with others. This biological drive is crucial for well-being and societal cohesion.

The Shift in Social Drive