Of course I get money :))

If my marriage works, it may be because each of us has our private money. Not much, but enough so that the other party has no right to ask where that money has gone. It's sort of a release valve. Household money--must account for it. My private money--I can be as irresponsible as I want (same for him, although he is never irresponsible with money). I love being irresponsible (that is, I give it away).