I know you went through quite a trial with your son. It's so hard when someone is young. It seems unfair...it is unfair. And to have your child suffer. I'm so sorry. We were relatively lucky. This lady was nice. She was actually an RN, so she did know stuff. And she was gentle with my husband. It's just that medical professionals get casual about infection control. It's hard to be vigilant all the time. She threatened not to come back at one point because I was hounding her. We did reach a kind of peace. It's not easy to delegate care of a loved one to someone else.

I hope neither you nor I ever have to go through such a trial again.