I think you have a wonderful opportunity to reach kids. Music. That can break through any barrier. Very sad, the way you describe them.

he's perfectly capable on the computer mixing with EQ plugins and such.

The kid has worked on computers but probably never had real life experiences. All impersonal.

Like, have they ever picked up and played with an action figure or doll? Have they ever kicked a ball?

I guess play wasn't important. I hope you break through. Everything else they learn in school may be abstract. Preparing them for 'success', but not for life.