It took a while to be invited to the most simple homes

It takes trust to let people in, to let them see what you are not proud of. You must have been a good friend to them.

For me, the issue between individuals needs to be worked out always with children in mind. We are free agents, until we have children. Then we have a responsibility that is larger than ourselves. Those lives are in our hands. It's an amazing thought...we have so much control and we don't realize it, as parents. Helping to mold people. For some 18 years that is our job.

I think, as a father, you realize this. That's something my father did not understand. You don't have to be a perfect parent, just try to be perfect :))

Thanks for the feedback. I appreciate it.