What makes a married men or women seek casual sex with strangers?
A lot of things can cause this issue to take place.
Frustration - when someone is frustrated due to social issues they can fall into such whether they intend or not.
Depression. If someone is having high depression the only thing they want is something crazy. Have u ever find yourself in a situation in which you feel like hurting yourself?
Poverty. When someone is in extreme poverty or husband refuses or cannon provide for his wife. Chances are high, she can be a victim.
Drinking habit and drugs abuse.. 60% of American women get pregnant after they went to bar to drink. So they lose their senses. Hence they commit adultery. If someone is into drugs definitely they can commit anything.
Addiction to sex. A sex addict has more chances than anyone. Most women get tired of an addicted husband. Hence the husband finds it elsewhere. Women who are not lucky to have energetic husband can also fall victims. Some men can't satisfy a woman.
Exposure to men at work. Nurses, health workers, doctors, jobs with night shift etc. All these can be victims. Many of the aforementioned confessed to sleeping with their colleagues. According to them by mistake.
Social network and WhatsApp group where sex is explicitly mentioned. Some people have a strong sexual desire. Something small can arouse their lust for sex. Hence chances are also high. Many women on Facebook had sex outside home with strangers.
Feeling free with the opposite sex. Sorry to say some women are slutty in nature. So does men. The moment a woman sees a man she opens up, discussion starts, then personal issues are shared, before you know shaitan becomes their third. Few days ago someone posted, she slept with her husbands brother, and it all started with talk in the parlor.
Party. 99% of people who go to night parties have chances of getting mugged by the opposite sex. All men think party girls are prostitutes. So they rape them in most cases.
Car lift. Many men like to give lift bcos it always ends with a happy ending. A sister confessed to being disvirged after she took a lift. Weeks later a Lizard 馃 came out of her vagina. Thats the result of sex with strangers.
Lastly, I will tell you one secret of having sex. Only few among you will understand. Sex is good, it is awesome. It gives u the best pleasure. It takes u high, even higher than sky. You will enjoy it like no other things.
But,
All these pleasures last for not more than 5 minutes after finishing. If you are asked after 15 mins of having sex. What is it like? Do you still feel it? By Allah you can only say it was awesome. But you can't feel it or imagine the pleasure again.
So if you commit zina, you will enjoy it for as long as you are on it. After you finish, the pleasure is gone. Guess what is left? The wrath of Allah. The tension that you will meet with Allah. So if the pleasure does not last that long, why can't you be patient? It is not worth is. Sex with strangers is even the worse. You kept your virginity for long, just of a sudden you sold it out to a stranger.
Think about it.
Pearls of Marriage.
