You like getting compliments?
I decided to write about a topic over which we pass is often overlooked, namely the “compliment”.
Yes, you read that correctly, not an addition.
I decided to write this topic, because lately I've noticed that I'm not I one when I get a compliment.
Really don't know what to say, or they come out very easily.
Maybe you happened you the same thing, and still do not understand why you react so.
People who react as I described above, or not react at all on the compliments to the people who have lost confidence ever, maybe a bad joke made by someone in childhood or excessive criticism of the parents.
These people forgot how beautiful can be, and came to believe as you appreciate this is not normal or even lies from other people who probably hide interest when I say this.
I've seen people who are in the other extreme, people who crave the approval of others because they do not love themselves.
People who are through everything they do, how to dress, what car you drive and what profession in the society, crave recognition.
I've seen women beloved man who preys compliments on any occasion to and increases self-esteem, long-lost.
And I have seen men who think that love and admiration for your beloved woman you can buy.
How to receive compliments?
The good news is that you don't need to do part two categories, if you know you accept and love yourself on you in an authentic manner for what you feel you are and not for what you or not you.
If you feel strange or out of the ordinary when I hear of self-love, it means that your level of confidence is still quite low.
People he's afraid that if I start to love yourself, will fall into the selfishness and pride that he will remove the fact that they really are.
Well, to love yourself, and believe strongly believe in your inner voice, is no pride, no self-love because they have nothing to do with love, and where there is love there is no place, so, even fear.
Returning the compliments, they are nothing more than a manifestation of trust and love from you.
If you are not accustomed to, begins to get used to it, not to put too much emphasis on, but not to ignore them, they are just nearby.
Those who prefer to see only their flaws and negative side of other people who do not love themselves and, therefore, neither on others.
Compliments you the opportunity to admire what is beautiful and good.
Not everyone has this ability developed.
Admire those who make you compliments for this capacity and see that the message they have for you.
