I believe there are children who, from a very young age, have the ability to adapt to their environment, no matter how difficult it may be.
The relationship you have with your parents largely sets the tone for the attitude you will take toward others in life, yet you can also choose a different path.

While my father showered me with kisses, my mother would watch me in silence, unable to say anything nice to me—or at least I don't remember her doing so; nevertheless, I know she was an excellent mother, despite having a thousand flaws.
I used to get my parents' attention—and a certain amount of freedom—in many ways, and yet I got pregnant at sixteen; it was mostly because I was foolish... romantic and foolish.

I always admire you so much when I read your words.