Why some men cheat in marriage. We have lots of reasons why some men cheat their spouse. Though no reason is reasonable enough for one to cheat. I'm not going to be talking about myself in this post, but someone that is close to me, not too close as a friend, but as a neighbor.
I started watching them fight most times and the worse part of it is that the husband started keeping late night. But it wasn't like this when they were newly married. They use to love each other from the unset. The perfect description for them when they began the journey of marriage was 5 and 6. When they say that these two people are 5 and 6, it means that they are always together, they trust and love each. But now, the reverse is the case.
THE THINGS I NOTICED THAT MADE THE MAN STARTED CHEATING HIS WIFE ARE:
Nagging: the wife suddenly turned to a nagging wife. She complained about everything he did.
Dirtiness: the moment they got married, the wife stopped taking good care of herself. Maybe because she believed that she is now married and no one is going to ask for her hand in marriage again. But she was wrong. Men are always attracted by what they see. So, this man started going out with the young ladies outside his home that takes good care of themselves. Aside from not keeping the environment clean, she is also a dirty fellow. She don't really care what she wears and how she wears it. She may just pick up any cloth and just put it on and keep moving to any direction. To her, it doesn't matter at all.
Mismanagement of funds: Because the man was rich, the woman started spending money anyhow. She just buy anything that she wants without considering how her husband will feel about it.
Bad friends: The woman started following bad friends who introduced her to their own way of handling problems in their homes. She never thought it twice that the method that worked for Mr. A, may not work for Mr. B. Those her new friends mislead her and she started having crisis in her home.
Not able to keep secrets: The woman if found of saying everything that her husband say to her in the secret outside. When they have any problem at home, the husband will be surprised to hear someone telling him about it outside. Most times the husband will feel ashamed and will not even know what to say before the people discussing his family problems before him.
I have discovered that most times we blame the men for cheating on their wives, but we never take time to check why? What is pushing that man away from that his beautiful wife? We need to check and make amends as a couple. I know that there is no excuse for doing wrong, but there is no smoke without 馃敟 fire.
In conclusion, marriage is to be seen as a call, not a responsibly. When a woman knows that this is what God has called her to do, she will not have any problem with her husband. She will always go back to God to talk to him because he is the initiator. A woman should not because she is married stop taking good care of herself.
