Started because 40 years is not being old and each process of each person is different. The success or failure is personal and you must find what you think is success. Now there can be several reasons why you do not have a partner, wanting something and not knowing how to get it generates frustration so I understand you. Given the case that you want some advice on how to get a couple here I give you some.

1-You do not know how to attract the opposite sex, many times we have insecure attitudes that make us even distance ourselves from people who want to attract us, only we do not know how to behave.

2-You can have beliefs that limit interaction with girls. In a few words maybe your idea of conquest is putting many girls more difficult than usual. With this I do not mean that you get involved with just anyone who is not collaborating so much in what they conquer you.

3 - You are careless, as I do not know you I do not know if this is true but there are people who are very careless physically, there is something that is true and is that the physical is valued by everyone and the first impression counts.

4-Another possibility is that your nearby circle is full of women who are not up to you, maybe you are not surrounding yourself with the people you owe to a woman who meets your standards.

5-There may be other causes such as shyness, own choice, lack of social skills ect.

I like these questions, when people assume that being married with children is like this:

Your salary is dedicated to the family, forget your personal hobbies, that leave it in the case that you over money (if you spare, as if you were going to be left over)

Many nights without being able to sleep, either because your child does not fall asleep, because he has a fever, because he wants to play or because he fell asleep very early and has already awakened.

Forget the moments of intimacy, since they will live the hormonal changes, a possible postpartum depression, the stress due to increased expenses, lack of sleep and many other things that will cause you an incapacitating fatigue, that if it were not enough , you have to coordinate with your partner to enjoy those rare moments when your son fell asleep early. Just so that 5 minutes later you hear that your son has already woke up.

It also reduces your personal time and to be with your friends, now will be mainly family reunions and children's parties.

And if you can not perform with a smile on your face all that I just mentioned, the loser is the father of a family with a house, couple and children.

So everything boils down to ... What does that person want? What makes him happy? With divorce rates of 20 to 25%, we see that life as a couple does not guarantee happiness.