I think that no matter how much you try to only share the good things, the disorder in your life that you aren't prepared for will show up and make you a little bit uncomfortable. But remember that everything is temporary — pain, suffering, humiliation, love.
When you're done justifying things in your life, you will realize that it needs to happen for you to rejoice even in things that aren't acceptable. We learn through our mistakes. We learn by accepting that we are just human full of errors. We learn that that disorder is just part of living, but it doesn't have to define the bigger picture which is your whole life.
Forgive others, but most importantly, forgive yourself. ♡