Woah!!! Lot's to take in here, holy shitballs Batman! I read your posts and most of the comments and my conclusions are:

• Some people really don't have a fuckin clue and try to speak on behalf of all of their gender - now that's madness!
• You have a great understanding of human nature and have a great sense of humour!
• Things will work out for you in the long run, you just need to be careful who you trust and trust your gut instinct, which is rarely wrong in my experience.
• You picked out three cracking tunes to sum up your post.
• I had never heard of Indigo Girls - Closer to Fine and really enjoyed it.