Ah yes indeed, you are speaking my language, The National are one of absolute fav bands too, and also like Lykke Li and Katie Melua (though I have not listened to her in a while) Thanks for the reminder, it's lovely to hear her again.

my mind has been struggling and wandering lately. It has been crowded both in my personal and professional life. I think these are the consequences of my previous decisions, and there's no one to blame. However, it can be hard at times, especially when you perceive you are stuck in a conflictual situation and you don't see any white flag in between.

Sorry to hear this - hopefully you will find a way and things will become harmonious again soon. Great quote at the end by the way, listening is so important, and I feel society at large is getting worse at it. Best to surround ourselves with those who do actually listen.