You're one of the good ones @blackdaisyft, no doubt about it. Even, within your own mental health difficulties you are kind enough to share them with others so that someone else might benefit from your wise words.

You are very self aware and wise beyond your years and I'm so glad that you have figured out some of the ways you tick, we all have these little idiosyncrasies and behaviours that can be innate or learned,but being self aware and kind to yourself is a brilliant attribute that will hopefully help you.

I'm most certainly a people pleaser and a bit of a perfectionist and like to be liked, which means a snide comment or a perception that someone doesn't like me can really affect me and messiness drives me nuts or at least used to. I've learned to accept that not everyone is going to like me and nit everyone is as tidy and organised as me and that's just fine. That's up to them.

Now to the tunes!! Great shout with the Gorillaz, they are class... Did you ever listen to Damon Alburn's first band Blur... Another great 90s band..