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In our daily lives, we express a wide range of emotions; for instance, when we encounter something we like, we feel happy—meaning that seeing or hearing that particular thing brings us joy. Similarly, anger is another emotion present in our lives. When something displeases us, or when an event occurs that disrupts our peace of mind, such things trigger anger. These emotional reactions vary from person to person. Some individuals are quick to anger, becoming agitated over even the most trivial matters; conversely, there are those who are able to exercise control over their anger. Every individual possesses a unique temperament and reacts accordingly. In today's world, people tend to lose their temper very easily, often becoming angry over insignificant issues. In contrast, you may have observed individuals who—no matter how harsh the words spoken against them, or how adverse the circumstances they face—do not get angry; instead, they maintain their mental equilibrium. They do so because they understand that giving in to anger serves only to deplete their physical energy and disturb their inner peace. I have encountered many people who fly into a rage over the slightest provocation—individuals who simply lack the ability to regulate their emotions. For example, you may have observed certain company bosses who react with such ferocious anger to every minor detail regarding their employees' work that the entire office lives in fear of them. Their mindset is often fixed on the belief that they must display anger in order to ensure their employees work efficiently; however, they fail to realize that their employees are enduring such treatment merely out of necessity—and that the day this compulsion ceases to exist, the dynamic will change entirely. Friends, there are indeed situations where expressing anger is occasionally necessary; sometimes, circumstances arise where a gentle approach proves ineffective, necessitating a certain degree of anger. However, when a person begins to lose their temper at every little thing, people inevitably begin to distance themselves from them, and this behavior ultimately takes a toll on their personal relationships. You may have observed that, among your various acquaintances and relatives, there are often individuals who tend to lose their temper at the slightest provocation. Consequently, you typically maintain a safe distance from such people; the concern is that they might say something offensive, potentially leading to an argument between you or causing a rift in your relationship. For this very reason, people generally choose to keep their distance from those prone to excessive anger. However, there may also be individuals in your life who do get angry, yet you find yourself unable to confront them—often because you are bound by certain constraints or obligations. Such people often delude themselves into believing that others fear them because of their anger; in reality, however, the truth lies elsewhere. It is, in fact, the other person's sense of helplessness or obligation that compels them to tolerate such behavior. After all, in today's world, if a complete stranger—someone you do not even know—were to merely speak to you in a slightly raised voice, you would likely react instantly. Thus, this tolerance stems solely from necessity and nothing else—even if the angry individual misinterprets it as a sign that people are afraid of them.

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Speaking for myself, I do not get angry very easily. Although I often contemplate getting angry internally, I ultimately find myself wondering: what is the point of getting angry, anyway? After all, this varies from person to person. There are some people—such as small children over whom you have authority—who might be swayed by anger; in such instances, if they are being disobedient, you might choose to get angry—though certainly not all the time. Then there are certain obstinate individuals who provoke immense anger just by their presence, yet against whom one can take no action; we know that if we were to get angry, it would be futile, as they are utterly shameless and refuse to admit their mistakes. Even when they are clearly at fault, they react as if they have done nothing wrong, offering endless, baseless justifications in their defense. These individuals are absolute masters at lying; getting angry at such people is essentially just "burning your own blood"—a complete waste of energy—so it is far better to simply ignore the situation. Even if anger does arise, it should be kept within limits; excessive anger can drive a person to madness, causing them to fall victim to irrationality. Excessive anger is detrimental, as it can lead to various physical ailments. The greater your control over your anger, the more stable your mental equilibrium will remain.

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