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You may live in any corner of the world, but one thing is certain: you live in a society and belong to some kind of society, and as the majority of people in that society have a mentality, people start adopting these concepts. Any society operates on certain standards and expects its members to adhere to them. Some standards include what constitutes a good person, the qualities of a family man, and what constitutes beauty. The biggest question arises when many people living in a society are unable to adhere to them due to compulsion. If a person wants to live in society, they often have to cross the limits of this unrealistic reality. This, in my opinion, is completely unfair, because often you encounter such standards that you can hardly do anything about them. Society has many different kinds of assumptions, but it is not necessary that everyone conforms to them.
For example, suppose there is a belief in the society that for a good personality, your skin color, your body shape and many other things are considered but this does not mean that every person should have these things or the person who does not have these things does not have the right to be understood because every person has his own body and his own personality which is unique in itself, it is not necessary that every person has the same skin color or the same body shape. All the people in the society have their own unique personality on the basis of which they make their identity. If a person is interested in studies then he becomes a better person in future and this better person then does something for the society which can be useful to the society. There are others who take these societal standards too seriously and begin to conform to them, which is completely wrong. Doing so means abandoning your natural appearance and indulging in artificial ones, which can cause significant harm and even disrupt your mental peace. If you conform to society's expectations, but don't see any real meaning in reality, you'll be wasting both your time and money.
The advancement of society often gives rise to things that shouldn't exist. The once-perceived identity of a good, responsible person has changed significantly, and has been replaced by something that few can fulfill. You must have noticed the difficulties people face these days in getting married. Especially those who still live a simple life and live in a simple place are facing difficulties. In the past, if someone wanted to get married, there weren't many demands, and people would simply give their daughter's hand in marriage to a man after looking for something simple. Now, things have changed significantly, and people have started making demands that few can fulfill, and this has become increasingly common. It's becoming even more difficult for men who don't have a good job or don't have their own business to find a match because, in society, girls' families are focused on other things instead of looking at the boy's qualities. This is a bit wrong, because they should be looking at the boy's qualities and whether their daughter will be happy there. Today many such concepts have come into existence in the society which are not good for the society and such things are creating many types of problems in the society.
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