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If someone does something wrong to us, many people say that I will never forgive you. Some people say that I will never forget the wrong you have done to me and they always carry the feeling of revenge with them. Forgiving and forgetting are very different things and there is a lot of difference between these two. Forgiving means that the mistake made by the other person is remembered in our mind but we have forgiven that person and there can be any reason behind this. But the thing to note is that forgiving does not mean forgetting that mistake but forgiving that person. On the other hand, if we see, forgetting means that a person did something wrong and after some time we forgot that mistake, this is called forgetting because that mistake has gone out of our memory. It is possible that in the future we may remember it again but for the time being we have forgotten it, but the thing to note here is that we have not forgiven that person, we have just forgotten the mistake.
There are many people who take things to heart and if someone commits even a small mistake with such people then they start letting that mistake overpower them which is wrong in a way because if a person takes those things to heart then he is not able to move forward in life and he keeps dwelling on these small things and these things start dominating him. We should think here that the thing about which we are getting so worried should not be so worried because the person because of whom we are getting so worried may not even be aware of the thing that how wrong he has done.
If seen, it is better to forgive a mistake because there are some mistakes that a person cannot forget throughout his life and this is the thing that troubles a person again and again that he did so much wrong to me and I could not do anything. Many people keep thinking throughout their life that I wish I had done this to him on time or I would have said this etc. The person who keeps remembering the mistake of another person again and again in his mind, that person does a kind of stupidity because that person punishes himself for the mistake of someone else. Doing this is wrong because the person who realizes his mistake that he has done something wrong, he immediately apologizes but the person who has made a mistake and remains unaware and does not realize that he has done something wrong to someone, then it is better to ignore such a person and forgetting those mistakes is the best thing.
There are many people who keep the feeling of revenge in their heart if someone does something wrong to them. Even after explaining a million times, they do not forgive that person, I don't know why, but if you forgive someone else when he makes a mistake, then it is like giving yourself a gift because if you keep carrying the burden of someone else's mistake in your mind again and again, then it is very disturbing for you, that is why if we forgive, then this is the best option.
Forgetting is not easy but forgiving is the easiest thing any person can do.
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