Nothing beats someone who is flexible. In life only the flexible ones survive easily and with the different analysis you gave about your vanlife and all, I think you learned flexibility the hard way but it's nice that you got through those different moments.
I really needed to read something this beautiful at this time because I'm going through quite a lot lately and I think the answer to my so many questions is being flexible.
I came across this amazing content thanks to #dreemport and your post reminds me of the challenges one could face when building their dreem space.
RE: The Art of Flexibility: Mastering Adaptability in Van Life