## Hello everyone!!! ## Hello to All ladies of hive!!! Hope so you're all doing so good and happy! Today I'm here again and gotta chance to write on a topic which is my most favorite topic of discussion, i love to speak on it but in real life i never gotta chance to talk about on it because i don't have people in my real life who wants to listen about it. But thank you to @brittandjosie who give us such topic. ![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmcWdoLCLHeQgyCx7rt9MT9B1TViU1dHtCFWAyhLMfTM6D/20230525_175118_0000.png) #### *[Canva](https://www.canva.com/join/qdp-kfh-zdk)* Life hack which change my life Firstly i want to tell you that i belong to a family who is well settled financially. But I'm the kind of person who wants to become financially strong by my own not by inherited. My father is a well settled person he has much money that he never wants to do me a job!!!! My husband is a well settled person too that i don't need to do a job!!! * ***But i want to become independent and that's not happening if i don't become financially strong!!!*** I'm an asian girl and mostly asian girls depends on father and than on husband and keep herself busy in house chores and obey their order but i want to do something different. I don't like such kind of lifestyle. ### *So, here I'm going to tell you what i did to change my life?* When i completed my graduation i asked to my father that i want to do a job and he said why i need a job??? I keep silent and repeat that thing to my Mom but she replied the same that if you have rest in life than why you want to be it restless??? But i convinced her that mom i want to become independent , i want to take my decision. I don't want to ask someone to ask money. ### No one was with me!!! ### *Family support is everything but i don't have that. That's hurting to me but it's okay because it's life.* ## But i follow just these two rules * Do whatever you want to do * Never listen to other, doesn't matter they're my homies or other. ## *Do whatever you want to do!!* This helps me the most, it's my life so it should be my choice what i want to do, i went to different places to submit my CV and give a demo too after that they called to me and i finally start a job. But, nothing was solved because I've to listen to rumours!!! People trolls me in different ways and I've bear all these bullies. They're thinking I don't obeyed my Perants and I'm not an obedient child. They think i love money but they're wrong. Because i want to earn it, i want to know how much it's difficult to earn money. But no one get my point. ## *Never listen to others!* If i start to listen them than I'll never be successful in my mission so i stop to listen them. I know there's a Time in my life when i hurt my mom and dad too, because i didn't listen to them too. * ***That was stubborn attribute of me*** Now, even my husband never stopped me to do a job, because he know i can manage it. Still I've much thing's to do better in this case but i think it'll take time and i only need patience. * *Later with the time things will back to normal, but it takes almost year's to settle all the things, but now I'm at that point that mostly people think i did the good thing. I fought for myself and i was alone to fight and win this battle.* ### That's all for today and my entry to this week loh challenge. I see many entries but the entey of @nainaztengra and @irenenavarroart inspired me most. Read their entries too. ***Note: picture is edit with canva.*** ## *Thank you for your time and support*

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