I think this is a sh1t test. Meaning, women knowingly give advice that won't work, just to see who is foolish (read: clueless beta male) enough to get self-conflicting advice from women... :P
Women are notorious for giving "be a nice guy" advice like this, and then go have sex with the biker guy who deals drugs and beats her up. :P
RE: How to Flirt Successfully (strictly for men)