Let's talk about how annoying it is to reach a certain age and that people who think they have the right to have a say in our lives, ask us: "And when will we have children? Or even worse, they come out with comments like "you're getting old" "you're getting old" "your time is going to pass"
If you are part of that group of people who make those kinds of comments, I want to tell you that:
1. Everyone is the owner of his or her own body, so he or she decides what to do and what not to do with it, or when to do it and when not to do it.
2.Everyone's times are different, everyone has their own time, their own moment and everyone lives their life at the pace and in the way they see fit. Therefore, there is no train that is going to pass.
3.Indeed, every day that passes, we all get older, but at least I feel like wine, as they say, the older the better.
4.Contrary to what many unfortunately still think, the purpose of us women is not to procreate, it is like that of any other living being, to live and be happy, so I want to take this opportunity to remember that happiness is not the same for everyone.
5.Children come in different presentations, they are not only human, they can also be plants, pets, any living being, so I for example, I am the mother of two, Susy Amor and Kara Melissa, this does not make me more or less than anyone else, it is simply my choice and they are the ones who make me happy.
Let's stop assuming that the cycle of life is to be born, grow up, graduate, work, get married, have children, retire, have grandchildren... die. Life is not a copy and paste and we were not all born for the same thing.
All ways of living are valid, as long as we do not harm others, but it is very important to remember that by this I do not mean hurting others' susceptibilities by not living our lives the way others intend, I am not talking about that, I am talking about real evil like raping, abusing, killing, stealing, those kinds of things that certainly should not exist.
As for me, today, at 31 years of age, I do not want to have human children and that's fine, I just do not see myself in that role of mother of another human being, however as I said before, I enjoy being a mother of a beautiful dog and a beautiful cat, to whom I must dedicate time, give love, take them to the doctor, buy food, medicine, buy accessories and have all the care they require, so yes, they are my daughters, because they require a lot of responsibility.
With this I just wanted to remind you that there is no mold to live, let's respect the styles, beliefs and above all the decisions of others, because we all deserve to be happy and give love in our own way, without social pressures.
Thanks for reading me!
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