Hi, Steemians!
Nothing is wrong with ambiguity, so long as we understand how to approach and deal with something that we may not fully understand.
Sometimes, the process backfires and we tend to think in negative patterns or take the intention as negative or harmful.
This usually ends up destroying our own image of self-confidence and respect.
Seeds of doubt in your thoughts in time become a hell of your own making…
If you want to destroy your charisma by your own hands, then try to incorporate this tendency to your daily life.
A lot of people interpret words or actions negatively and react to them accordingly. In doing so, they do nothing but harm their own image and reduce their charisma or magnetism.
Let me make the case by giving you a simple example.
You are sitting at a table in a restaurant with two people.
You say, ‘What a lovely weather we have today!’
The two persons sitting in front of you nod, while one of them suggests:
‘My preference has always been a cloudy sky.’
Now, a normal person with a decent outlook would look at this suggestion and take it as a romantic sentiment from the other side.
A person who tends to interpret everything negatively would think that the person’s comment undermines their own previous words.
So, a person like that might get offended at a situation like this and react in a manner that would expose his unpleasant thoughts.
This might sound silly to a lot of people, and that is exactly why I chose a silly example to make my case.
Because interpreting things negatively merely because of the ambiguity of the comments or the actions is bizarre… to say the least!
Even if some signs indicate negativity or offensive suggestion, you should not lose your cool or expose your unease.
Because the price of such reactions is looking absurd, while the other person may get away with their unpleasant words or behavior.
Other than that, we should never actively try to interpret everything negatively. People are not predominantly focused on hurting us or saying things that would upset us.
To think that other people are inadvertently aggressive towards us will in time make us aggressive and unpleasant to hang out with.
Try to interpret everything with a sense of nonchalance and you can never hurt anyone, nor can anyone ever hurt you!
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Please, take the time to read the text below, it can always change in some points and it is it that has made this community understand and help each other. I would like you to pay close attention to what is written in these notes. Try to really follow what I ask of all of you who are a few months old with me contributing meaningful comments and we have built something really good here along with people who have a positive mindset and we have managed to get more people together like that.
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Always read this text of notes because I can making important changes in this text like update names in the list and things to the growth and understanding of how we can improve our foundations and how this community was built until here.
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I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, more and more upvotes each others and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: More and More Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog.
Thanks All of You!!!!