This question interests many people, since without respect, it will be difficult to succeed at work, in studies and in life as a whole. But now not many know how to actually achieve respect from other people and to yourself. Therefore, today i will discuss with you the most basic methods and principles so that everyone could achieve respect.
The first thing you need is, of course, motivation. It is necessary to clearly define, why and for what you need to achieve respect of others, and the goals in this regard will be different for all people. Therefore, it takes some time to reflect on this question, why and for what you need to achieve respect, what will change from this in your life. This takes an average of 2 days, but without this you will not be able to start and achieve respect. Simply write down on your sheet of paper all your answers and thoughts on this matter and begin to motivate yourself to realize this goal.
Do something
People respect a person mainly for his actions and for what he does. And if you still have your favorite work, hobby or passion that you like, then it's even better. Since those people who are engaged in their own affairs, can achieve respect much faster, without making special efforts, but simply doing what they like. Similarly, if you do not already have such a passion and occupation, then start looking for it right now, since by finding it and developing it, you can not only achieve respect, but also become more successful and achieve everything in life you want. Of course, it takes a lot of time and effort to find this hobby and the meaning of life, but you do not know how much this can give you useful when you find this hobby. And in order for you to find it easier and easier to find your meaning of life, you need to get rid of the laziness that hinders in many endeavors, and also become strong, without this it will be impossible to achieve respect and succeed in life.
Respect yourself and other people
Since to gain respect for others, you first need to start to respect yourself and other people who surround you. Try to find only good in people and in yourself, so it will be easier and easier for you to begin to respect yourself and others. You need to completely change your way of thinking, and start thinking only more positively. To do this, you need to start controlling your thoughts and emotions, selecting and filtering them. This will not only help you achieve respect, but so, you will become more successful and achieve a lot in life.
Society
Since the society that surrounds you, plays a big role in the formation of the individual, which affects whether you can achieve respect in this society or not. To do this, try to find a good society of successful people who value good and aspiring people like you. Accordingly, having found such a society, you can achieve respect from them, and you will succeed in life. Since there are quite bad societies of people, who not only do not respect other people, but themselves as well. They lead an unhealthy and wrong way of life, see only a negative around them and complain and blame life for what they themselves have done. Try to reduce communication with these people, because they will not be able to help you, but will only worsen your way of thinking and views on life, which will lead to failure.
Help people
Since when you start to help people not necessarily financially, they will begin to appreciate you, and you will be able to gain respect from them. But this help should be when you really want to help someone just like that, and not for any purpose. Since people see and understand, for what purpose you are helping them and for this you need to achieve trust. And when you help people, for some specific purposes, for their own benefit, they will not respect you, and you will not be able to achieve respect. To do this, you need to change yourself a little and the way of thinking to such that in life you do not need to help someone for some purposes and for money, you can help people just from the heart, without even expecting thanks from the person you helped. You can not even imagine how you will feel great when you help someone.
