" oh and u call yourself a spiritualist when you do that?!" Says someone to you after you school them or react decisively to their inappropriate behavior or talk, they think that being a spiritualist or religious means being a push over, and that it is an open invitation for them to procoke you and push your limits.
Being a spiritualist or religious means that you are now an artist, the least to say, if not an alchemist, it means that you stopped being a drone driven person governed and lead by collective mind and victimising yourself all the time.
So being an artist or an alchemist means that you give every moment its proper weight, you react, but not overreact, it means that you can decide wisely whether schooling someone is a good reaction, or just ignoring them is the right way to go. Your vision which is lead by heart give you the power to know how to react...but you are definitely not a push over.
Put all this sewer talk behind your back and go lead from your heart.