I have sometimes wonder what is the essence of living when our fellow humans aren't showing the exact love and care we share. It have really shown that the world we live in is really unfair where some people don't care about how others feel even when it involves life and death. Though we can't showcase or display the same attitude but I always wonder why some people don't have human feelings towards others.
I have come to realize that no one should classify his or herself important because if we are no more the people around us will move on and live better. It is very painful when you render help to people that you feel needs it but at the end they don't appreciate any of it but judge you with a negative situation. The fact that your nice to people doesn't mean people would be nice to you, so what I have learnt from those people is to reduce the aspect to be too nice to people to avoid them taking advantage of our kindness.
You need to understand that we are surrounded with both the good and bad people that you really can't judge who is really who. Imagine situations where people are in need of help but no one is there to render but when such person dies most people around would want to give the deceased a befitting burial or show attitude that they really care in showing concern.
Who is deceiving who
We can never please our fellow humans because in one way or the other they will find fault. That is why even in relationships you see a partner getting tired of his or her fellow lover as things around him or her becomes boring and needs a change. One important thing to take note in life is to be happy no matter what, though the challenges in life can be frustrating but we just have to keep pushing for better days and live strong.
Tomorrow isn't promised so live a life that you can be proud of and avoid letting other people turn your mood or emotions down. Humans have thought me a lesson that the impact you showcase on other people have become past tense and needs a renew and if your not capable to the task then you've become past tense to then. Don't feel too proud of your achievement because not everyone is happy about it which is a fact.
One true fact we should know is that every parents uses each of us as an example to their kids whether they should avoid us or be like us. It is really a strange world to live in but since we are imperfect, then we need to work in perfecting our actions to be better. Avoiding what people would say about us would help us a lot but keeping it inside of us will only cause damage to ourselves and system.
We can be happy this minute then the other minutes we can feel down which is part of our daily lives to experience but accepting positivity we only allow us focus on positive things even in times of challenges.