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In life, things happen, and sometimes what we planned to get, to achieve, to own at a particular time, didn’t come to us then we broke down and get angry at ourselves because we don't like the situation we are in.
Feeling behind can spill into every area of our life when we feel we are not accomplishing or have not accomplished some goals we set for ourselves or we see a friend, co-worker, or churchmate doing better than us.
Earlier this year, I set some goals for myself that I plan on achieving, but guess what I realise yesterday that I haven't achieved half of it not to talk of achieving all and the year is coming to an end soon.
According to the ”The MINIMALIST” question which is “As we're approaching autumn in many parts of the world, I'll like for us to take a check on the pace of our life. How balanced are you? Are you happy with the pace of your life? Do you feel like you're always falling behind schedule? Does life feel like it's slipping away from you?”
Truth be said, I think I am falling behind schedule because there are times I planned to do something or get something done, but then I won't be able to accomplish it by the time I promise myself to do it. Some of them will be left without touching, while others will be shit or rescheduled for another day or time.
Sometimes I get angry at myself because I feel I am not doing enough. I feel I should be more balanced than I am now in terms of financial aspects, and some of the things that relate to my personal life.
Then I get to realise I am not behind in life and my journey is just different. I am going to get to where I desire to be and achieve all I want, it may be slow but I will achieve all.
So, if you feel like you are falling behind reflect on your past achievements, stop comparing yourself with others, focus on your goals, be happy with what you have and know that life is not a race. And the most important of it is you should be kind to yourself.
Thanks for reading, sending love and hugs❤️🥰