How can you be sure the version of the person you are getting is the real version?
My answer to this is TIME. I'm never judging or categorizing a person just on the first and/or only one encounter.
Some people act a bit different when meeting new people, some on purpose and others without even knowing it but that's not a facade that can be maintained forever.
Just my 2 cents 😉 Came here from ListNerds!