There is a proverb goes, " A friend is need is a friend indeed." In childhood we used to learn the story of two friend and a bear. There lies a strong moral to learn. How many of us can learn and acquire in us. How many such friend you got? Maybe got or not. Whatever it is we always need a friend who comes forward when you need him the most.
In our good times we don't lack of people or friends. With the bad time all seems to get vanished gradually. On that time whoever keeps standing with you is truly the friend you need.All of us got such advantage taking friend who comes to our life and leaves you when it is not getting good enough for him to stay anymore. But there will always someone standing with you.
Back to the school days friendships were greater then any other kind of greed or selfishness. I have seen two types of friends around me. Which i am gonna share with guys from my personal experience. Don't get offended if that doesn’t match with your thinking.
Type-1 Friends who came for short periodic time for the need of a work/project/or something like this. Those are only means a temporary understanding,nothing else. I have also seen friends with benefit. There are also some where is only formalities. Meetings some picture clicking and these some random gossiping and back to own works. Truly i dont believe in these friends much, i am also not aware of their coming if i fall in danger.
Type-2 There are always some people who are from our early childhood and still being with us. Who doesn’t mind even if you take the larger bite willingly from his food and teasing him. There will be no formalities within you guys. Who will be always aside with me even if that costing him.
Do you know what type of friends i prefer? Well lets say:
First of all i want to share something about me. I am a very complex person by heart. People find me difficult to understand me. So first of all i would have asked for this quality from him. Who is willing to see the ups and downs and stay by my side at those moments. Maybe we wont be giving so many pictures on the social platforms yet we will touched with one another at all the monet.
When it comes to my part towards the friend then i will always try to be the real me, the loyal one. Maybe i wont be able to give a sad post on social media over my friends sad mood but trust me i will be there to hold the friends hand and say,"Don't worry dear, i am here. We will fix it together."
So this is all for now. These was some of my personal thoughts and opinions over a topic about friendship. I have given my personal one's which may vary to you guys. So if you have anything to say then feel free to let me know through comment box.Thank you for your time. Have a good time.